Time - 9.34
Date - 24/3/2011
Location - Yes, still Pietermaritzburg, KZN. South Africa
Last night, whilst bathing, I was contemplating what shall be the blog post today. I drew blanks. I could not figure out anything to type. Maybe, because it is the 24th day of the month and my petrol tank, bank account, wallet and self esteem are all depleted. Does money impact ones life to the extent that without it, we feel unloved and undervalued?
I have always been a firm believer, some might call me a traditionalist, that the man (usually the top for the gays) should be the higher earner. This however, is not always the case and in many instances the female (bottom, usually) is the wealthier party. The question is, how far are you willing to take the relationship when you are paying for the Sandton lunches and Melville cocktails and all he can afford is a Streetwise 2 on payday.
I like pretty things, and prefer purchasing said pretty things with my own hard earned capital. However, I would never refuse a gift, and appreciate it when someone special spent their hard earned capital to treat me, Its nice. So ladies and bottoms (usually) would you end a loving relationship because a man couldn't afford you or would you stick it out hoping that one day he actually sell a painting, or sorts out his metal-collection business or he gets a finally finishes that novel?
At this present moment, I have no idea what I would do. But then again, I am chatting to a doctor.
Love and Kisses
Because you are gay i will ignore your comments on women aka females. Somehow coloured people always say "females"
ReplyDeletemoving on
i dont mind going out with a dude who he poor but he must have passion and drive and must be determined to be successful. Every women wants a millionaire but most are willing to settle for middle class. Though if hes a krappy painter but amazing in bed, id ditch him. cos love only takes you so far
ps thevet is not a doctor ;p
My Lovely Ms T
ReplyDelete1. You are a female
2. Drive is great, but are you willing to wait?
3. Sex is always good, keep the guy on your contact list
4. DE VET is a "girlfriend" and the Doctor is real, REAL
im a very patient person. btw your header is really annoying. i have to scroll down for like an hour before i get to your post
ReplyDeleteWell Mr Love.
ReplyDeleteI've been in 2 relationships where I was the higher earner. They didn't have cars so I was running around after them. Still lived with the parents so always round at my house. Borrowing money a week after payday. So, adopting the 'once bitten twice shy' approach', I'm afraid I've become rather cynical and it's a case of NO Money - NO HONEY!
Agreed, NO MONEY - NO HONEY... LOL
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